A Parable
It was 2007 and I could tell that he was
upset when he walked into the construction company where I worked and he made a
beeline to my office. His name was Tony and he was a supervisor and I was his
boss.
“Bob won’t follow my instructions”, Tony
said as his eyebrows were raised by his wide-eyed look. “I think that we should
get rid of him!” he said as he sat down in one of the chairs in front of my
desk.
I asked him to tell me what he had done
and he went on to explain how Bob (under his leadership) continued to not do
what he asked him to do.
Apparently, Bob had blown off some
specific instructions that were given to him by Tony, but had actually come
from the owner of the company.
He added that he had given Bob a good
tongue lashing.
I told him that I would talk with my boss John
(who was the general manager) and see what he would like us to do. Until then,
I asked him to not talk to Bob because I could see that his anger was still
there as he talked with me about Bob.
I left my office and went to talk to John about
the situation. He agreed that we should bring Bob in and have the three of us
meet to get his perspective.
I went back to my office only to see the supervisor
chewing out Bob and adding that he was in trouble since he went up the chain of
command.
I asked Tony to come into my office where
I asked him why he was talking to Bob since I had asked him not to do so.
Tony said that he was going out the back
door when Bob came in, so “I decided to let him know that he was in trouble!”
I told him that John wanted me to set up a
meeting with himself, myself and Bob; but not Tony. The plan was for us to get
Bob’s side of the story and then talk about following his authority. To fail to
do so would result in disciplinary action; including the possibility of
termination of his employment with the company.
I asked Tony (again) to NOT talk to Bob
about this situation. He could cast it upon me and I personally would handle
the situation. Bob said that it sounded good. He made his way out the back door
to his truck.
A few minutes later, I needed to get
something out of my vehicle so I, too, made my way out the back door.
When I got to the parking lot, Tony and
Bob were having a shouting match that was escalating as Tony let Bob know that
he was REALLY in trouble. I asked Bob to leave and I asked Tony to please go to
my office.
I asked him why he was shouting at Bob
when I gave specific instruction to not talk with him.
Tony replied that he was just letting him
know that Bob had to come in for a special meeting at which time he was going
to get written up.
I asked Tony to wait in my office and went
to talk to John.
When I spoke to John about the latest
development, he shook his head in amazement and asked me to bring Tony to his
office; which I did.
John asked Tony; “Why did you talk to Bob
when we gave very clear instructions that we were going to handle it?”
Tony responded that he let his frustration
and anger get the best of him. We once again asked him to cast it upon us and
that we would take care of it. Once again, we asked him to NOT talk with Bob,
then dismissed him as John asked me to stay behind.
John said to me; “Give him five minutes
and then check on him, and then get back to me; ok?” I agreed and went back to
my office.
Five minutes later I went outside to the
workshop off the parking lot and…sure enough, (once again), Bob and Tony were
having a shouting match as Tony let Bob know the latest depth of the trouble he
was in Bob let Tony that he was mad at him for talking to John and I.
I went back to John to report the latest
update. John asked me to (once again) bring Tony to his office for a meeting,
which I did. During the meeting John asked Tony how he could ever expect
someone to follow his leadership when he wouldn’t follow ours?
Tony made excuses which sounded very
similar to Bob’s excuses about why he didn’t have to follow his instructions.
We told him that this was unacceptable and it was decided that we were
terminating his employment and asked Tony to turn in his keys.
After he was escorted out of the building
to make sure that he didn’t run into Bob, John and I met to get our bearings.
We stared at each other as we analyzed how Tony’s valid complaint had turned
into his departure.
He let his pride stop him from trusting
that we really cared for him and would follow through. He couldn’t see how we were
on his side and had his back.
Simply put; he brought his cares to us to
take care of; but couldn’t seem to trust us to take care of things…so he kept
picking it back up.
Similarly, how often have things gotten worse because we don’t follow the
instruction of the Lord?
1 Peter 5:6-7 says; “Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty
hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him,
for He cares for you.”
If you cast your cares upon the Lord, why are you still carrying
them? Why are you still worried about it? Isn’t it time to do something
different?
